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How do you interact or work with a person whose opinion contradicts opposes your views?
Acknowledge you value the person, just disagree on ideas.
- You could say, “John, I want to say from the outset that my disagreement on how you handled this project isn’t about your work.
- Another way you can communicate this is by showing an interest in this person that is outside of the topic of the argument.
How do you disagree with a conversation with someone?
How to have a conversation with someone you disagree with
- Tell people they matter.
- Don’t let frustration get the best of you.
- Acknowledge underlying fears.
- Don’t assume the worst.
- Share your sources.
- Use respectful language.
- Show you understand (even if you don’t agree).
- Don’t defer to sarcasm.
How do you handle feedback you disagree with?
Here’s my advice for what to do when you disagree with feedback: Check your understanding. Repeat back what you think you heard, and say, “Did I understand correctly?” or “Did I get that right?” This is a good opportunity to show you care about the person, and what they think. Take your time.
How do you deal with different opinions?
7 Simple Ways to Deal With a Disagreement Effectively
- Seek to understand. People tend to disagree when they don’t understand each other.
- Look beyond your own triggers.
- Look for similarities, not differences.
- Be a good listener.
- Take responsibility for your own feelings.
- Make a commitment.
- Use positive language.
How Do You Talk to an argumentative person?
When talking to an argumentative person, it’s best to keep the conversation as trivial as possible. If a topic comes up that often causes disagreements or that many people debate, like gun control or abortion, say that you do not want to talk about it or that topic doesn’t interest you. Change the subject.
How do you respond to someone giving feedback?
How to respond to feedback
- Listen. When somebody is giving you feedback, it’s important to listen carefully to what they’re saying.
- Wait to react.
- Ask for more information.
- Request time.
- Create an action plan that starts with visible change.
- Find an honest confidant.
- Follow up in the long term.
How do I give feedback without getting defensive?
It’s never easy to hear critical feedback, but it’s essential to improving your work.
- How to Accept Critical Feedback Without Getting Defensive.
- Active Listening.
- Ask Questions.
- Understand Why Feedback Is Important.
- Take Notes.
- Schedule a Follow Up.
- Understand the Other Person’s Point of View.
- Get In Front of Critical Feedback.
How do you help someone you don’t agree with?
Here’s how she and others suggest doing it better.
- Decide if you want to go there.
- Ask if you can ask about it.
- Keep it neutral.
- Start off the conversation with understanding.
- Look for where you agree.
- Talk less.
- Avoid using the word ‘but’
- Tell stories.
How do you professionally argue?
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- Stay calm. Even if you get passionate about your point you must stay cool and in command of your emotions.
- Use facts as evidence for your position.
- Ask questions.
- Use logic.
- Appeal to higher values.
- Listen carefully.
- Be prepared to concede a good point.
- Study your opponent.