How do you deal with disrespectful aunt?

Articulate your frustration.

1. Take a deep breath before and during the confrontation. Keep calm when delivering news that the person may see as accusatory.
2. Remember people who are rude may be in denial or become defensive.
3. Use “I-statements”, to express how you feel rather than starting a statement with “you”.

How does your aunt influence you?

Aunts play an important role in the lives of their nieces and nephews. They serve as the playful, supportive, loving and nurturing figures. This can be especially beneficial for young girls who benefit from a positive female role model. To be a great aunt, it’s best to start a bond early in a niece’s or nephew’s life.

How do you deal with insulting family members?

Dispute the inconsiderate behavior of your relative

1. Step 1: Don’t talk to rude or insulting family members.
2. Step 2: Dispute the inconsiderate behavior of your relative.
3. Step 3: Kindly kill them.
4. Step 4: If you see another family member who is rude and insulting, speak to them first.

How can I be a cool aunt?

Here are some of the best tips:

1. Be the aunt or uncle you wish you had.
2. Play your niece or nephew’s favorite games with them.
3. Take a walk down memory lane.
4. Focus on experiences, not gifts.
5. Act like a kid, plain and simple.
6. Remember that quality time + unconditional love = a winning combo.

How do you deal with a mean aunt Bertha?

Be aware of behaviour patterns that it will probably be repeated when you visit. If you know that your mean aunt Bertha might take a run at you during a family dinner, you may want to have a couple of comebacks ready to make her look foolish for always picking on you in public.

Why does my niece not treat me as an aunt?

As a young woman matures there is an awkward period where your niece may not know whether to treat you as her aunt with the respect due to an adult or the more casual and sometimes disrespectful behavior of a peer. This can be especially difficult if you and your niece are close in age.

What to do when your niece has a bad temper?

Take some time to calm yourself as well so that you are acting out of love, not reacting out of anger. Talk to your niece. Family problems, school stress or even friends may shorten your niece’s temper, and she may respond disrespectfully.

How do I get my niece to treat me with respect?

Once you have called her attention to respectful behavior, make sure that you live it out. It does no good to ask your niece to treat you with respect if you are rude to others. Instead, model the behavior you wish to see.