What to do when people are arguing around you?

Talking it over

1. Choose an appropriate time to talk.
2. Try to start the discussion amicably.
3. Use ‘I’ statements, not ‘you’ statements.
4. Try to see things from your partner’s perspective.
5. And remember: you may not just be arguing the surface problem.
6. Keep tabs on physical feelings.
7. Be prepared to compromise.

How do you respond to someone arguing?

There are three main ways to respond to an argument: 1) challenge the facts the other person is using; 2) challenge the conclusions they draw from those facts; and 3) accept the point, but argue the weighting of that point (i.e., other points should be considered above this one.)

How do you deal with arguing?

4 Ways Great Leaders Handle Arguments

1. Listen before speaking. When someone is angry, giving him time to explain his point of view is crucial.
2. Take the blame and apologize. Saying “I’m sorry” and “It’s my fault” are two of the best ways to get great results from any argument.
3. Ask questions.
4. Work together.

How do you calm down when two people are arguing?

Here are four simple statements you can use that will stop an argument 99 percent of the time.

1. “Let me think about that.” This works in part because it buys time.
2. “You may be right.” This works because it shows willingness to compromise.
3. “I understand.” These are powerful words.
4. “I’m sorry.”

How do I stop being emotionally arguing?

How to Not Cry While Arguing: 11 Ways to Stop the Tears

1. Identify Your Triggers.
2. Tilt Your Head.
3. Honor Your Sensitive Nature.
4. Prepare Yourself for Tough Conversations.
5. Use a Safe Word.
6. Acknowledge What You’re Feeling (without Judging)
7. Drink a Glass of Water.
8. Take a Time-Out.