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How to get your parents to let you crossdress?
Ask your parents for their reasons if they say no to your desire to cross-dress or they express disapproval of your identity or lifestyle. Seek to understand their viewpoint and concerns so you can gauge whether you can convince them over time, or need to seek help or guidance from others.
Where can I hide my clothes from parents?
Places like your underwear drawer, under the mattress, or at the top of your closet are obvious hiding locations for things. Your parents probably tried these areas when they were younger! Use strange or more complicated hiding areas for greater success. Try hiding something in a sibling’s room.
How can I hide from mum?
Use odd places.
- Try hiding something in a sibling’s room. Those obvious locations become a little less obvious if they are looking for something specific to you.
- Tape things to the underside of your dresser or inside the top of the drawers. This keeps items from being discovered by a quick look under the dresser.
How can I get my dad to buy me girls’ clothes?
Try asking for or buying boys’ jeans and tops in a slimmer and tighter fit for a more feminine look. Or add girls’ accessories or a few key clothing items to a typical boys’ outfit. Take them shopping with you. Invite your parents to come with you to the mall or stores where you’d like to buy girls’ clothing.
What should I do if my parents won’t let me buy clothes?
If your parents are reluctant to accept what you’ve told them and won’t allow you to buy girls’ clothes, but don’t show signs of verbal or physical abuse or consequences if you disobey them, consider buying the clothes yourself and changing into them once you get to school, or other times when your parents aren’t around.
How do I tell my parents that I’m a cross-dresser?
You can start by explaining that nothing negative or wrong has “made” you have this desire or identity, and that it is not just “a phase.” Even if it is something you don’t do forever, tell your parents to take you seriously. Tell your parents that cross-dressing is more common and normal than they might believe.
How can I convince my parents to let me dress like a girl?
Tell your parents the reasons behind your desire to dress in girls’ clothing. Be specific about how dressing in this way does or would make you feel, how you benefit from it, or what occasion you want to wear this clothing for. If you don’t know why you want to do it, just explain that you feel the need to experiment right now.