Why dont Xander and Anya get married?

Xander and Anya talk privately before the ceremony and Xander explains that he can’t marry her. Motivated by the fear of turning into an abusive drunk like his father, Xander refuses to allow himself the opportunity to marry Anya and ever hurt her in that way.

Does Xander leave Anya at the altar?

Buffy defeated the demonic Burns, but Xander decided to call off the wedding anyway, as the vision Burns had shown him of the future reawakened his old fears at turning out like his parents. He left Anya heartbroken at the altar.

Does Xander love Anya?

He was looking at the far future where he believes he will turn into his father and make Anya’s life and their marriage a living hell. The reason Xander left Anya was not that he didn’t love her, it was because he loved her so much he didn’t want her to suffer with the crappy person he was sure he’d become.

What happened to Xander in Buffy the Vampire Slayer?

He’s worked in film and television since, including in reunions with Buffy costars and in popular police procedural dramas. He even returned to the character that made him famous by helping to write his continuing adventures.

Do Anya and Xander end up together?

She eventually rejoins the Scooby Gang as Season Seven focuses on the long fight against the First Evil and eventually becomes friends with Xander; although Xander and Anya still love each other, they never officially resume their relationship.

Who married Xander?

Anya
For starters, the marriage of Xander and Anya — what a milestone event in the ongoing ”Buffy” narrative! — demanded and deserved 100 percent of the genius that fuels this show.

Does Willow ever date Xander?

Willow and Xander. Alexander Harris – Willow “dated” Xander when they were five until he stole her Barbie which was when they “broke up”. She maintained a hopeless, unrequited crush on her lifelong friend up to high school.

Does Anya marry Xander?

Xander and Anya didn’t get married, because the writers wanted to milk drama out of it. It was completely out of character for Xander.