How do I stop letting people?

Some tips to help with this:

1. Realize you cannot control other people.
2. You have three choices – change your thinking, change your behavior, or do nothing.
3. Examine your role in the behavior.
4. But realize it may have absolutely nothing to do with you.
5. Don’t inadvertently enable the behavior.
6. Let it go.
7. Let them go.

Is it good to take advantage of others?

And that’s a good thing! You do not have to receive monetary or physical gain to take advantage of someone. Even if you only get intellectual or emotional enjoyment out of interacting with someone, you’re taking advantage of something you can get from him or her.

How can I be compassionate without being taken advantage of?

Here are three tips on how to be assertive and compassionate in your relationships without being taken advantage of:

1. Set Your Boundaries & Speak Your Truth.
2. Identify The Assertive & Compassionate Communication Behaviors Required.
3. Understand Personality Types.

Why you should not rely on others?

Being emotionally dependent on other people can really make your life miserable. If that person fails to make you happy, you will become disapointed, and frustrated. Happiness from others, is not very reliable.

How can I be kind without being used?

Some things you can do:

1. Be people-discerning.
2. Do give people the benefit of the doubt though.
3. Remove people who have abused your kindness before.
4. Give what you are ready to give.
5. Surround yourself with good people.
6. Forgive, don’t forget.

Is compassion good or bad thing?

Compassion makes us feel good: Compassionate action (e.g., giving to charity) activates pleasure circuits in the brain, and compassion training programs, even very brief ones, strengthen brain circuits for pleasure and reward and lead to lasting increases in self-reported happiness.