How do I deal with homophobic parents?

You may have heard your parents make homophobic comments before, but maybe you don’t really understand why they feel the way they do. Start a dialogue with them about their feelings about gay people and use active listening skills to truly hear their side of things.

How can my parents attack my faith if I’m LGBTQ+?

Tip: Your parents may attack your faith when they realize you’re LGBTQ+ or an ally. It’s helpful to prepare for these types of comments and questions in advance. You might plan on saying something like, “I think God makes people LGBTQ+,” or “My faith tells me that God loves everyone, and it’s not up to me to judge anyone.”

What should I do if my parents are religious?

If your parents are religious, they may have learned that homosexual relationships, being transgender, or being nonbinary are wrong. They may struggle to accept that homosexuality is natural and part of who you are. Don’t try to attack their religion, as they’ll likely just push back. Instead, work on educating them with current research.

What to do when your son says he is gay?

Above all, you need to keep reminding yourself that this is not “all about you.” If your teenage or adult son is making a conclusion about his feelings and labeling himself gay, he’s also old enough to think many independent thoughts and process many sources of input.

How can I help reduce homophobia and stigma?

Whether you are gay or straight, you can help reduce homophobia, stigma, and discrimination in your community and decrease the negative health effects. Even small things can make a difference, such as supporting a family member, friend, or co-worker.

How do you deal with the stigma of being gay?

One way to handle the stress from stigma and discrimination is by having social support. Studies show that gay men who have good social support—from family, friends, and the wider gay community—have: higher self-esteem, a more positive group identity, and. more positive mental health.

Is it homophobic to try to understand why someone might oppose marriage equality?

It isn’t homophobic of me to try to understand why someone might be opposed to marriage equality. Giving someone the benefit of the doubt takes courage; dismissing him before considering his argument—well, that seems a bit phobic. Beside—me? Homophobic?

How can I talk to my parents about my LGBTQ+ experience?

Tell your parents about your feelings and experiences as an LGBTQ+ individual. Invite them to ask you questions and answer to the best of your abilities. You can also help them find articles, pamphlets, and other educational materials to read.