How do you deal with inconsistent behavior?

How to deal with inconsistency in relationships or emotional inconsistency?

1. Develop a relationship with yourself first.
2. Speak to them about it head on.
3. Give them the benefit of doubt.
4. Do not consider yourself as their victim.
5. Let them go.

What does inconsistency say about a person?

If you describe someone as inconsistent, you are criticizing them for not behaving in the same way every time a similar situation occurs. You are inconsistent and unpredictable. Someone or something that is inconsistent does not stay the same, being sometimes good and sometimes bad.

Why can I never be consistent?

It’s hard to be consistent because we tend to focus on the outcome more than the process. Put another way, we’re more drawn to the positive feelings of outcomes rather than the struggle of the journey. Most of us quit during the struggle before we can experience the rewards of staying the course.

What is the root of inconsistency?

word-forming element meaning “not, opposite of, without” (also im-, il-, ir- by assimilation of -n- with following consonant, a tendency which began in later Latin), from Latin in- “not,” cognate with Greek.

Is Inconsistency emotional abuse?

Emotional abuse often is inconsistent in amount and duration and happens in multiple forms. At its core, emotional abuse plays into deep-seated fears of rejection, abandonment, unworthiness, shame and loveability. Projection and gaslighting are two major tactics used in emotional abuse.

What are the effects of inconsistency?

Because inconsistency lowers psychological safety, increases fear, and makes failure’s social costs salient, it in turn decreases experimentation behaviors. This sug- gests that inconsistent organizational conditions would lead to less experimentation than consistent organiza- tional conditions.

What is an inconsistent partner?

An inconsistent partner is, more often than not, unpredictable in their mood and actions. Fortunately, if your partner is more likely to predict your mood and behavior, they’re more likely to open up to you and feel a connection. If not, they will feel guarded and on edge due to fearing what your response may be.

How do you achieve consistency in life?

Live a consistently healthy lifestyle.

1. Make physical activity a part of your everyday life.
2. Eat at regular intervals, and follow a balanced diet.
3. Avoid smoking, or quit if you’re currently a smoker.
4. Resist extreme binges, both in eating habits and with alcohol.
5. Make sure you get enough rest each night.

Does irregular go with inconsistency?

Inconsistent describes something that’s varied or irregular. So if you’re supposed to floss every day, but you only remember every now and then, your commitment to oral hygiene could be called inconsistent.

What it feels like to be stonewalled?

For the person who is being stonewalled, it is normal to feel frustrated, angry, confused, and hurt. It can have a damaging impact on a person’s self-esteem and make them feel like there is a lack of trust and closeness in their relationship.

What kind of person is stonewalls?

Stonewalling is a strategy used by one partner in a relationship to avoid the other partner. It involves refusal to communicate and an unwillingness to solve problems. A person who is stonewalling may use the silent treatment or give you the cold shoulder rather than being willing to talk things out.