What age should you not live with your parents?

It’s safe to say that adults older than 30 should not be living at home with their parents unless they are caring for parents with declining health. By the time someone is 30, they should have had enough time to secure a job and save up enough to move out.

Who is better mother or wife?

Though she cannot replace a mother, she becomes a friend, guide, nurse, cook etc. everything a mother can be. A wife is the one who can think like a mother about the safety of her husband. A wife can only be the one on whom a man can rely on, other than his mother.

Do parents have a “natural love for their children”?

The assumption that parents, especially mothers, have a “natural” love for their child is a fundamental part of our belief system—and the core of family life and society. Very often this myth has an adverse effect, though, in that it leads to a failure to challenge negative behaviors within family life. It also intensifies parents’ guilt.

How do you Honor your children in a marriage?

You honor your children when you put your spouse first. You teach them that they are, in fact, NOT the center of the universe and that the best way to live is to be aware of other people’s needs. You teach them what marriage is supposed to look like. You provide a safe and unbreakable home.

Why do some parents try to impose sameness on their children?

Parents try to impose sameness on their children because they can’t live on through their children if the children are different from them. For example, if you are religious and your child is a non-believer; or if you are a Democrat and your child is a Republican, your child no longer serves that necessary function.

How do parents use their children as immortality projects?

Parents tend to use their children as immortality projects, which has a destructive effect on their offspring. In order to serve this purpose, children must replicate their parent’s attitudes and choices. If they differ, their independent actions are misinterpreted as defiant or rebellious.