What can I do instead of discipline?

8 Positive Alternatives to Punishment

• Take a time-out WITH your child.
• Actively show your child that she is heard.
• Ask mundane questions.
• Connect with your child.
• Provide your child with choices.
• Give YOURSELF a time-out before responding.
• Teach kids to show – not just say – that they are sorry.

Does sparing the rod spoil the child?

The phrase, “spare the rod and spoil the child” is not a Christian phrase and is not in the Bible. That phrase actually comes from a narrative poem written in the 1600s titled “Hudibras” by Samuel Butler. Corporal punishment does not have its basis in the Bible.

What can I do instead of spanking my child?

Below are ten alternatives to spanking that you might find helpful.

• Give choices. A choice gives some control back to the child on the parents’ terms.
• Take a timeout.
• Get someone else involved.
• Teach them what you expect.
• Recognize their positive behaviors.
• Timeout.
• Consequence.
• Pick your battles.

Is it OK to physically punish children or are there better ways?

Researchers found that spanking can elevate a child’s aggression levels as well as diminish the quality of the parent-child relationship. Other studies have documented that physical discipline can escalate into abuse.

What does the Bible say about beating a child?

In their desire to follow “the word of God,” they “beat” their children to prove their love to them according to their reading of another proverb: “He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes” (Prov 13:24 KJV).

Is it a sin to spare the rod of discipline?

This is a great sin against the child and will cause much damage. Whoever spares the rod hates their children, but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them. Those who spare the rod of discipline hate their children. Those who love their children care enough to discipline them.

Should a parent be spared when discipline is needed?

But whether by a rod or some other unpleasant experience, children should not be spared when discipline is needed. While this seems harsh, think of what is at stake: A parent who refuses to discipline their child will cause them to grow up undisciplined and their lives will be greatly impacted.

How should I use the rod of correction to my child?

When appropriate, and necessary, you should apply the rod of correction to your child in a consistent way. The Bible talks about using a rod which could also be a belt, wooden spoon or other appropriate paddle. I recommended that you use something other than your hand.

Does my child need discipline?

They still need discipline, but you may find they work better with a different form than your other children. The Bible says not to frustrate or provoke your children to wrath (Ephesians 6:4). This is done when a child has no idea what is expected of him.