What do narcissists do when you block them?

Most narcissists will not readily change their behavior once you ignore them. They might make half-hearted attempts to “get better,” but they often abandon these efforts once they can refuel their narcissistic supply. This pattern often leads you to feel exhausted, resentful, and angry.

Why do narcissists avoid you?

Put simply, they ignore you to regain control. The narcissist uses ignoring you as a way to punish for some wrongdoing you committed. They don’t feel the need to tell you what the wrongdoing was, they just jump into ignoring you as quick as possible to protect themselves from further narcissistic injury.

Do narcissists keep in touch with exes?

Ramani Durvasula points out, narcissists often have a habit of staying in contact with their exes in a way that is solely about their own needs. “The central motivator for narcissists is validation,” she explains. “And an ex is often a really interesting place to get it…

Why do narcissists always return to their ex-lovers?

A narcissist will always return to an ex-lover to ensure that his narcissistic supply still pines for him and that she never moves on from the pain he has caused her.

What is no contact with a narcissist?

No Contact is the key to escaping The Hoovering and the narcissist’s life-long plan for you. It’s also the only opportunity you’ll ever have for breaking the codependency to hope that the narcissist counts on you to cling to while he’s gone.

Why would a narcissist want to keep you in the queue?

No matter what he tells you, this is the only reason. A narcissist’s intention, after all, is to always keep you in the queue, ready and waiting alongside all the others (and there are always others). Hoovers are stuffed with lies and future-fakery and downright bullshit.

Is your narcissist hoovering?

Remember, the narcissist is never worried about what you’re doing while he’s gone or that you’ve found a better love because he’s conditioned you to wait for him…to wait for the hoover. It’s time to ignore the subtle signs of hoovering and get on with your life.