What do you do when you feel jealous of your friend?

How to Deal With Jealousy in Friendships

1. Watch your thoughts. It can be so easy for one negative thought to cloud your judgment of reality.
2. It’s you, not them. Dig deep into the root of the issue.
3. Actively celebrate your friend.
4. Take care of yourself.
5. Confront the feelings.

Is jealousy good in studies?

“Jealousy generally has a negative connotation but emotions can be very helpful, informative and educational. Researchers conducted four different tests, and determined that feelings of jealousy motivated participants to study more and inspired better performance when people felt self-improvement was attainable.

How can I stop being jealous while studying?

Here’s a look at some ways to cope with jealousy and examine what’s at the root of your feelings.

1. Trace it back to its source.
2. Voice your concerns.
3. Talk to a trusted friend.
4. Put a different spin on jealousy.
5. Consider the full picture.
6. Practice gratitude for what you have.
7. Practice in-the-moment coping techniques.

Why am I so insecure about my friendships?

Another group likely to experience friendship insecurity are people with low self-esteem. “The research actually finds that how we think people see us is more related to how we see ourselves,” Dr. Franco says. “They kind of assume that other people see them the same way…which isn’t necessarily true.”

How do I get rid of envy?

Here’s how to stop being jealous.

1. Shift your focus to the goodness in your life.
2. Remind yourself that nobody has it all.
3. Avoid people who habitually value the wrong things.
4. Spend time with grateful people.
5. Understand that marketers routinely fan the flame.
6. Celebrate the success of others.
7. Be generous.

Why am I jealous of my friend?

“These are reasons that people get jealous, usually when they think someone has something that they want to have,” Sussman said. Lundquist said you may also be jealous because you’re worried about losing your friend or worried that your friendship will change.

Do your friends have better marks than you in college?

After final year, some of my friends were having better marks than mine. One year after college, when i see my friends who got better marks in college were getting lower salary than mine. I am having better job than those friends. Time will not be always same, it changes. This is a TRUTH. 1.

Should I stop worrying about my lower marks in college?

Stop worrying immediately as you can not change those your lower marks. During my college degree of 4 years, for first two years many of my friends achieved higher marks. looking this, i was worried but i studied harder and i got more marks than my friends in 3rd and final year.

Are you worried your friends get better grades than you?

If you’re worried your friends get better grades than you then you may be stressing out a little too much over it. It doesn’t matter who scores highest in most situations. Worrying about it will just hurt your grades. In this blog, I teach strategies to help study in less than 15 minutes a night.

Is it normal to be jealous of people who do better than me?

God Bless You! Well thats completely normal and typical human behaviour to be jealous of somebody who does better than us. What you need to ask yourself is what is it that you can do about it apart from feeling inferior. That does not serve any purpose whatsoever, apart from reducing your self confidence and making you more angry.