What happens when a narcissist loses control of a situation?

If there seems to be a loss of control over something or someone in their life a narcissist will tighten the reigns and take actions to re-establish it. If this isn’t possible, they will try to destroy the individual attacking them covertly to prevent the person from being able to defend themselves.

How do narcissists react to conflict?

Any attempts at having a narcissist accept accountability will likely just result in them feeling attacked, and then lashing out to gain control. Narcissists can go to a negative place very quickly. They often perceive neutral emotions as more negative than positive.

What happens when a narcissist pulls a disappearing act?

When they have pulled every trick in the book and they still can’t control you, expect your narcissistic partner to pull a disappearing act on you. They might disappear in hopes of getting your attention so you beg them to come back; or, they will disappear for real in search of new supply. In this case, you will probably never see them again.

How do narcissists react when things go wrong?

We might expect that the reaction narcissists choose when things go wrong is full of vitriol, rather than a conscious and deliberate consideration of alternatives. Part and parcel of narcissism, after all, is the sense that you’re entitled to get your way.

What is the relationship between narcissism and control?

In intimate relationships, narcissism and control might be exhibited in the narcissist’s attempt to determine a partner’s choice of friends or how a loved one dresses. The narcissist might become jealous or possessive and resort to aggressive behavior to exert control.

What are some tips for dealing with a narcissist?

Here are 10 “don’ts” for dealing with narcissists: 1. Don’t give them ammunition. Narcissists need to feel superior. Anything you share with narcissists may eventually be used to humiliate or manipulate you, particularly when you are most vulnerable or in need.