What is a dom/sub type relationship?

A Dom/ sub type relationship is one full of trust and consent plus a lot of love. It is also not gender specific, men can be subs and women can be Dommes and some are switch. I am a female submissive and have always known that I am.

What are your responsibilities as a submissive?

Responsibilities in submission are supposed to include communication with your Dominant. Having patience with the relationship. Working to build trust with your partner. And having realistic expectations of the relationship, while understanding the meaning of discretion when things need work. You know…all the stuff below? +

What are the responsibilities of a dominant in submission?

Responsibilities in submission are supposed to include communication with your Dominant. Having patience with the relationship. Working to build trust with your partner. And having realistic expectations of the relationship, while understanding the meaning of discretion when things need work.

Do you reflect on your Dom’s training in public?

In the D/s world this never happens. And if it does, it is up to the top to make sure it never happens a second time. You see, when you are out with your Dom you reflect all his training, anything positive, or negative. One of the most serious behaviors my sub can commit is to reflect badly on my training in public.

Do “Doms” want more than one sub?

Unfortunately, many “Doms” put out there from the very beginning that they want more than one sub. They may use the lifestyle as an excuse to sleep around. They say things like, “I’m not like other Doms, my needs are very high and I need more than one sub to fulfill them.”

What are the signs of a fake DoM?

To start, let’s focus on some of the warning signs of a bad or fake dom. If they focus more on what they are getting than what they are giving that is a huge clue. Of course the nature of a Dom can be somewhat selfish at times, but they should always make sure that the sub is satisfied not just sexually, but emotionally and physically too.

What are the signs of a good Dom?

Doms should have good posture and stand tall, trying to be physically above the sub, often making them sit below them or kneel. A Dom should also talk confidently and be direct. They usually wouldn’t ask, “Where would you like to go to dinner?”