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What is the most powerful self-defense move?
Be loud to intimidate the attacker and create attention in case somebody is nearby.
- Hammer strike. Using your car keys is one of the easiest ways to defend yourself.
- Groin kick.
- Heel palm strike.
- Elbow strike.
- Alternative elbow strikes.
- Escape from a ‘bear hug attack’
- Escape with hands trapped.
- Escape from side headlock.
How do you defend yourself without sounding defense?
How to Defend Yourself Without Being Defensive
- 1 Keep calm in the moment.
- 2 Wait to respond to the criticism.
- 3 Encourage the person to elaborate.
- 4 Listen to what the other person says.
- 5 Validate the other person’s feelings.
- 6 Respond with the facts.
- 7 Use “Yes, and…” in place of “Yes, but…”
How do you talk to someone who always feels attacked?
- Avoid using “blame” language. Don’t start a sentence with “you,” as in “You didn’t hear me, again!” or “You just don’t care about how I feel!” said Estes, the author of Relationships in the Raw.
- Start with some vulnerability and responsibility.
- Focus on your feelings.
- Ask meaningful questions.
- Don’t lose your temper.
How do you deal with people who talk down to you?
Make it concise (anyone who talks down to you is going to be ‘all about them,’ and won’t care enough to pay attention to your actual life). Use a neutral tone that authentically intends to be helpful. Don’t say it in a way that is defensive (because that dignifies their effort to make you feel one down).
What to say to someone who keeps putting you down?
What to say to someone who puts you down | I should have said Have you ever been around someone who keeps putting you and others down, and making snide comments? The critic sees fault everywhere they look, yet they fail to see their own limitations. A truly happy, confident person doesn’t feel the need to make everyone around them feel like crap.
How do you respond to someone who is talking to you?
Walk away and find someone who talks to you with respect. If you don’t want to dignify their comment with a verbal response, sometimes the best response is to walk away, whether they’re still talking or not.
What is the best way to ask someone if they’re helpful?
Use a neutral tone that authentically intends to be helpful. Don’t say it in a way that is defensive (because that dignifies their effort to make you feel one down).