Which is better dom or sub?

A dom prefers to be dominant during sex. A sub prefers to submit, i.e. to be dominated. It follows that a sub pursuing another sub, or a dom pursuing another dom, is looking for something that his love object can’t really offer.

What does it mean when someone wants to be your submissive?

To be submissive is to obey or yield to someone else. When you are submissive, you submit to someone else’s will, which literally, you put your own desires lower than theirs.

What its like to be a sub?

Being a sub, and the pleasure derived from such a position in a sub-dom relationship, is more than just simply being submissive during intercourse. This ritualistic nature of the relationship penetrates deeper into the acts of bondage and submission which take place in the intercourse.

Can there be submission within dominance?

And even though most individuals prefer a single sexual stance, still each role seems to offer its own gratifications. Going beyond this viewpoint, it’s useful to explore the paradoxical possibility that there can be submission within dominance—and dominance within submission. Feeling out of control is intimately related to anxiety.

Why do men strive for dominance and control?

As regards gender and tendencies toward dominance, it’s generally believed that men strive for dominance and control mostly because of their higher testosterone levels.

What makes a good dom/sub?

In Ogas and Gaddam’s description of such “play,” note how the pressure is actually much more on the dom than the sub: “A good dom pays very close attention to the sub’s experience and determines when a sub may be approaching his or her limits. It takes training and experience to become a good dom—usually by serving as a sub for an established dom.”

Is dominance a form of aggressivity?

A. Yes, because they see dominance as a form of aggressivity B. No, because you are normally very kind 10. Have you been bullied a lot when you were a child?