Why are women attracted to men with Aspergers?

Often, women are attracted to the passivity of some men with Asperger’s because they want to shape the parameters of their relationship, to make decisions, influence the way the relationship unfolds and have a degree of authority over what occurs. This is not necessarily bad.

How to deal with an Aspergers partner with a neurotypical partner?

Down time is crucial for many people with Aspergers. The Neurotypical partner may feel ignored or neglected if their partner is spending a long period of time alone, but it’s wise to realize this apparent isolation from contact with the NT isn’t personal in the least.

Is there a connection between Aspergers and romantic relationships?

Romantic relationships are tough enough to begin with, but throw Aspergers into the mix, and you’re dealing with a whole different animal. Aspergers is actually an outdated term that is still commonly used to describe a type of high-functioning autism. Those with Aspergers Syndrome are on the autistic spectrum.

What happens to an NT spouse with Asperger’s disease?

NT spouses can often experience their own mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, affective deprivation disorder, and post-traumatic stress disorder, as a result of being in a relationship with an undiagnosed and untreated partner with AS for an extended period of time. In these cases, the NT partner should also receive treatment.

How can I help my partner with Aspergers?

While re-evaluating the relationship in light of the new diagnosis, and striving to achieve acceptance, it is helpful for both partners to continue to seek information about AS, see a clinician experienced with adult AS, and/or join support groups focused on AS marriages or relationships.

What is an asperger/autism specialist and couples counselor?

As an Asperger/Autism Specialist and couples counselor, I work with individuals with neurological differences such as Autism Spectrum Difference (ASD) and Asperger Syndrome partnered with a non-spectrum partner (NS).

Are You dating someone with Asperger’s syndrome?

If you are dating someone with Asperger’s, you don’t have to be frightened. Although Asperger’s syndrome was recognized as a high functioning form of Autism Spectrum Disorder, you need to remember your partner can be anywhere along that spectrum.