Why do I only love someone I cant have?

We want to fulfill a fantasy. We want to prove to ourselves and others we deserve to have them. We unconsciously placed superhuman characteristics on our object of desire. The less the person reciprocates, the more time we tend to invest trying to get the person to reciprocate.

How do you stop wanting someone you cant have?

How to Cope When You Want Someone Unavailable

1. Accept that your feelings are normal.
2. Know that unavailability often makes people more attractive.
3. Recognize that secrecy is sexy — but decide whether it’s worth it.
4. Ask yourself if you’re being competitive.
5. Tell someone about your feelings.

Why can’t I find love?

You may be having trouble finding someone willing to open themselves up like that, or not loving yourself. If you’re lacking confidence in yourself, try to raise that, and find someone. Loving someone completely also takes time; we can’t as people expect to find love on the first swipe.

Will I ever find someone who loves me for me?

You will eventually find someone who loves you for you, don’t change yourself for someone else because that’s not who you are and who you are is all that matters. People are loved for mostly their personalities and you will find someone who loves yours. Did you find this post helpful?

What happens to a person who Can’t take Love in?

A person who can’t take love in can eventually learn to observe their feelings as they occur and choose to take a more transformative path. Most people seeking relationships are looking for true and lasting love.

Do We Really need Love?

Psychologically speaking, we do need love. Not the false representation offered by films and novels (more often than not a culture of addictive relationshipsover real love). But consistent connection and support from others that helps us recognise our value.