Why do narcs want to destroy people?

In order for the narcissist to feel like they can survive, they need to protect their fragile egos at all costs. They believe that to do this, they need to destroy you – even if they’re the one that’s deciding to exit the relationship.

Why are narcissists so abusive?

The narcissistic person struggles with emotional regulation and has a very low tolerance for their own emotional world; their efforts to avoid and deflect having to face their own emotions manifest as minimizations and invalidations of the other’s, often in terribly abusive ways.”

Do narcissists have identity issues?

Pathological narcissism has been compared to Dissociative Identity Disorder (formerly the Multiple Personality Disorder). By definition, the narcissist has at least two selves. His personality is very primitive and disorganized.

How do narcissists exploit others?

Narcissists exploit others without regard to the rules or the feelings of others. Deep down, they believe that people are expendable and that they deserve to have all their needs, no matter how harmful, met. Lack of Boundaries. Narcissists do not respect other’s space and see themselves as part of others.

What makes a narcissist try to control you?

Social Isolation The narcissist will attempt to isolate you from your friends and family. The feeling of loneliness and having no one to talk to makes it easier for them to control you. #2. Decreasing Your Self-esteem

Are You struggling to detach from the narcissist?

If you’re struggling to detach from the narcissist, to resist their hoovering, or are feeling fed up with yourself for the number of times you’ve forgiven them, chances are it’s because you’ve bought into one or more of these schemes. Let’s jump in… 5 Ways the Narcissist is Scheming to Destroy You Right Now! (Updated)

What is ididentity crisis in narcissists?

Identity Crisis’ in narcissists stem from their very primal question, “Who am I?” and their very narcissistically rigid answer, “I dont know! But WHOEVER I AM, I am the greatest!!! Right?” And then goes about the world seeking to make mirrors out of every other human being they come in contact with.

Do narcissists believe all the lies they tell about themselves?

Npds delusionally believe all the lies they tell themselves about who they are: as a famous quote says, if you repeat a lie often enough, it becomes the “truth.” If a narcissist tells themselves and boasts frequently enough that they are ________________, then maybe just maybe they’ll be that. Most people just find hobbies and enjoy them.