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Why does my Aunt hate me so much?
It is very likely that she might have unsolved inner issues and she might be needing some help. Just let her talk and ask yourself if there is something you can do to improve your relation with her, if you can´t see any solution, then keep away from her because she would hurt you even more.
What should I do when my family Hates me?
You can:
- Try to enforce healthy boundaries with your family members and let them know if you feel hurt by their actions in a calm, and well thought out way.
- Remove yourself immediately from situations that make you feel uncomfortable or unsafe.
- Opt to cut ties with those who you feel are unhealthy.
How do you deal with nasty aunty?
How to cope with your annoying relatives, according to a…
- Be prepared. Forewarned is forearmed.
- Use your strengths.
- Ask them to stop.
- Limit your interactions with certain people.
- Accept them for who they are.
- Avoid certain topics.
- Choose your battles.
- You can’t control what others do/say, only how you react.
What should you not do when talking to Your Aunt?
It may be best to avoid talking about religious beliefs when around your Aunt. Wait before you speak. Especially if you have strong negative feelings toward someone, don’t react quickly or speak without thinking. Take a breath before you speak. If you’re having a hard time holding back negative comments, gently excuse yourself.
How do you deal with difficult relatives?
One way to deal with a difficult relative is to give this person a job or a task at family gatherings. If a meal is being made, ask the relative to chop onions or set the table, and let him or her do it the way he or she wants. [3] That way, the relative will feel like he or she is making a contribution, and will be out of the way for a bit.
Do you feel like your family hates you?
So when it feels like your family hates you or that you belong to a toxic family, it can be especially painful and traumatic. The good news is that, while you may be struggling with questions like “Why does my family hate me?”
How can I avoid arguments with my aunt about my atheism?
Ask yourself what started these arguments and if there are ways to avoid getting into an argument this time. You may be proud to be atheist, but your Aunt may truly believe that being atheist will land you in hell. It may be best to avoid talking about religious beliefs when around your Aunt. Wait before you speak.