How do you accept things that are not perfect?

Break Things Down

1. Set yourself realistic, achievable goals.
2. Break down potentially overwhelming tasks into manageable steps.
3. Focus on one task at a time.
4. Acknowledge that it’s only human to make mistakes.
5. Recognize that most mistakes actually help with learning and growth.

Why do I try to make everything perfect?

When we feel that our life is spiraling out of control, one way to deal with this overwhelming feeling is to seek control in other areas. Striving for perfection is one defense mechanism to deal with great uncertainty. If we can’t control the world and our circumstances, then we may seek to control ourselves.

Why do I try to be perfect?

Usually, we strive toward being perfect to compensate for a sense of inadequacy. People who want to be perfect usually have an exaggerated sense of their own shortcomings. They typically received messages earlier in life that they weren’t good enough.

Does the perfect life exist?

As long as you have the right people by your side, you’re life can be as perfect as you want to make it, but don’t try too hard. A lesson to learn from all this is: “A perfect life doesn’t exist; it is allowed to have flaws.”

Why should we not be unhappy when we have difficulties?

Answer: When we have difficulties, our first priority should be how to solve that problem. And if we are unhappy then our brain and mind will be diverted from out priority. We will only be thinking that it’s our bad luck.

Why is life not perfect?

Life is Not Perfect. Fortunately. “Imperfection is in some sort essential to all that we know in life.”. ― John Ruskin. Life is not perfect. We discover this truth early in life. And the longer we live, the more we see it to be true. In fact, the imperfections surround us in nearly every direction: The world we live on is far from perfect.

Is imperfection essential to all that we know in life?

“Imperfection is in some sort essential to all that we know in life.” ― John Ruskin Life is not perfect. We discover this truth early in life. And the longer we live, the more we see it to be true. In fact, the imperfections surround us in nearly every direction: The world we live on is far from perfect.

Is the world really as bad as it seems?

The world is not as terrible a place as you think. Your brain is hardwired to make you think things are much worse than they really are. Life might not be perfect, but it’s better than it’s ever been before. There’s a psychological reason why you think the world is such a dark place.

Why do some people’s lives look perfect?

Their lives look perfect because they were resolute about creating the perfect conditions. Setting healthy expectations is an art that you can master over time that will bring you deep fulfillment. 2. Let go of control and over-thinking things: When we’re coming from a place of desperation we usually have a tighter grip on the events in our life.